When will it become easier?
When you realize emptiness (śūnyatā) of all phenomena.
Madhyamaka Buddhism (Nagarjuna)
Everything lacks inherent existence. Even emptiness is empty. You suffer because you reify concepts. Difficulty dissolves when you see dependent origination completely. Nothing has essence, including your suffering.
Practical Lever
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Study tetralemma. Everything is: not existent, not non-existent, not both, not neither. Deconstruct all substantialist thinking. Middle way between eternalism and nihilism.
Related Perspectives
Advaita Vedanta
internal
When you realize Atman equals Brahman (Self equals Absolute).
Similar mechanism: internal
Buddhism (Theravada/Mahayana)
internal
When you extinguish craving (tṛṣṇā).
Similar mechanism: internal
Absurdism
Never, and caring about this question is the error.
Contrasting perspective: accept
Anarchism (Kropotkin)
After spontaneous mutual aid abolishes coercive hierarchy.
Contrasting perspective: external
Aristotelian Virtue Ethics
When virtue becomes second nature through decades of practice.
Similar timeline: Months to years