When will it become easier?
When you transition from I-It to I-Thou relationships.
Personalism (Buber, Mounier)
You suffer because you treat others (and yourself) as objects. Authentic interpersonal encounter transforms existence. Difficulty decreases when you recognize irreducible dignity of persons.
Practical Lever
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Practice genuine dialogue. See people as ends, not instruments. Vulnerability in relationship heals alienation.
Related Perspectives
Advaita Vedanta
internal
When you realize Atman equals Brahman (Self equals Absolute).
Similar mechanism: internal
Buddhism (Theravada/Mahayana)
internal
When you extinguish craving (tṛṣṇā).
Similar mechanism: internal
Absurdism
Never, and caring about this question is the error.
Contrasting perspective: accept
Anarchism (Kropotkin)
After spontaneous mutual aid abolishes coercive hierarchy.
Contrasting perspective: external
Kierkegaardian Christian Existentialism
Never by your own power. Only through leap of faith.
Similar timeline: Weeks to months