When will it become easier?
When you annihilate ego (fana) and persist in God (baqa).
Sufism
Separation from the Divine creates all pain. The lower self must die. Through remembrance, ascetic practice, and love, merge with Allah. Difficulty is distance from Source. Ecstasy replaces suffering.
Practical Lever
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Find tariqa (Sufi order). Submit to shaykh. Practice dhikr. Repetitive prayer and ecstatic worship. Intoxication with Divine love.
Related Perspectives
Advaita Vedanta
internal
When you realize Atman equals Brahman (Self equals Absolute).
Similar mechanism: internal
Buddhism (Theravada/Mahayana)
internal
When you extinguish craving (tṛṣṇā).
Similar mechanism: internal
Absurdism
Never, and caring about this question is the error.
Contrasting perspective: accept
Anarchism (Kropotkin)
After spontaneous mutual aid abolishes coercive hierarchy.
Contrasting perspective: external
Aristotelian Virtue Ethics
When virtue becomes second nature through decades of practice.
Similar timeline: Months to years